How many times have you thought about upcoming events (a celebration, a job interview, a conference, etc.), and you only imagine what could go wrong? How often do you think “what if…” imagining the worst, according to you in order to be prepared? How can you use the Law of AttractionWhat is The Secret to creating the life of your dreams?
If you identify
with any of the above, believe me you are not alone: that was me 4 years ago, and it’s not that I’m no longer completely
that I’ve stopped being it completely, but that (luckily) now I only feel like that once in a while.
like that very occasionally.
Before, and all too often, I rationalized those worries by telling myself that I wanted to be prepared for any event that could go wrong.
And I don’t dispute that it’s important to be prepared, but is it worth worrying about. so much? Is it worth the risk (because there is one) to encourage negative thoughts that are only going to cast shadows on a future situation?
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The secret of the law of attraction
Summarized in: act intentionally, without expectations, and leave the How will it happen? to the Universe.
Having expectations could be wonderful. Just believing that something amazing is going to happen (as we have it in our minds), can make us immensely happy. But if things don’t happen EXACTLY as we think they will, having expectations can become a bane.
Having the firm
conviction that something will happen with respect to a particular situation (whether good or bad), can affect not only how we experience that event, but also how we experience it.
good or bad), can affect not only how we experience that event,
but also how we see the world around us, right up to the moment the event happens.
The reality is that expectations influence us so much, that when fear strikes, because of the worry it generates, it is very difficult to to maintain a positive mindset.
Tying ourselves to a single outcome, can kill our power to attract and manifest.
You can believe me when I tell you that to date I don’t know anyone more controlling and square than this servant’s version, 4 years ago.
And that one of the most liberating experiences I have been able to feel, was learning to live life according to my purposebut without expectations.
Generally, expectations come from preconceived ideas about how the things we wish to see manifested in our life should be, and they create in us that fear of thinking that what we desire may not happen.
And the fact that there is only that possibility, generates anxiety, fear and worry in us.
When we manage to free ourselves from these preconceived ideas, we allow the Universe to follow its flow without being affected by the results we impose on it. Think of it as if the range of your vision were only 5 meters around you, while the Universe is a drone that can see the whole picture.
result can serve to move you towards a greater realization of your desires, even if that result does not agree with you.
even if that outcome does not agree exactly with what you had in mind.
Manifestation and attachment to results.
specific results, insisting on manifesting something punctually and in a planned way, only serves to close our eyes to new possibilities and
planned, only serves to close our eyes to new possibilities and attract anger if everything does not
attract anger if everything does not go as planned (according to us, it went wrong), when we may have something 5 times better in front of us.
we may have something 5 times better in front of us.
The problem is the commercial and erroneous idea that the Law of Attraction is a kind of “tool” that can be used to manipulate reality and make things happen just as our mind wants, formulating our needs from its very particular, narrow and limited point of view.
In the human being,
this kind of expectation is totally natural and understandable, and something we will probably never stop doing completely.
we will probably never completely stop doing.
Your mind will encounter a situation and immediately formulate some kind of expectation, as that is how we function. However, there are certain things we can do to keep ourselves open to possibilities and with a positive attitude.
When things don’t seem to be working
When the Universe is in the process of working things out so that our desires are realized, events are likely to result that make it appear that they are not working as they should.
Always remember that this is only your expectation of how everything should happen, when in reality you are not seeing the whole picture. What you see is only a part of the larger scheme of events in which everything is working as it should.
At this point, the Universe tends to send you signals.
Expectation colors your perception of things.
expectation is that something will happen in a certain way, you don’t see how things actually happen.
things actually happen. This prevents you from recognizing the good that you have in front of you, and you reject it
thinking that it is something bad.
preconceived ideas that limit your perception, you can accept whatever is presented to you
as part of the solution that the Universe sends you to realize what you really want.
what you really desire. Then you are able to receive.
Many times we feel discouraged
discouraged if things are not going our way, and we may even lose hope thinking that what we want is not meant to be.
we might even lose hope thinking that what we want is not meant to be.
be. Then we put that dream aside because of the feeling of frustration, which makes us feel that our actions are in vain.
makes us feel that our actions are in vain.
Our main mistake is that we do not realize that we are in the right process of manifestation and we move away, when perhaps we find ourselves closer than ever.
I advise you to
work. Work very hard and intentionally, but let go of expectations so that you can surrender to the process.
expectations so you can surrender to the process, letting the result fall in the right place at the right time.
the right place at the right time.
If we don’t know how things will turn out, we need to trust
If you want to believe
in a benevolent and subjective Universe, but you can’t because your sense of logic won’t allow you to do so, the solution is to recognize that you don’t know how it works.
logic does not allow you to do so, the solution is to recognize that you do not know how that Universe works.
that Universe works.
Remember that man has constructed things that seem to explain much, but are limited to what we humans are capable of understanding, bent to what we are good at measuring, and subject to making it seem impossible to achieve, that which we do not understand.
Every advance that occurs in physics, demonstrates that the Universe is much more “weird” and impressive than we had initially imagined.
compared to us, the most remarkable physicists in the world are probably the most aware of their ignorance.
the most aware of their ignorance, and that is something that fills me with relief.
It comforts me to know, that the only real certainty is that we are more ignorant than we think, when it comes to comparing our power with that of the Universe.
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If we work
from there (a presumption of ignorance), the possibility becomes more real that our intentions and thoughts can actually
that our intentions and thoughts can indeed affect the course of the Universe.
of the Universe.